Hello everyone,
I finally have a little time to sit and tell all of you what has been going on. Dakota Reyes Townley was born January 4, 2006, at 11:32 AM, 7lbs 15oz, 20″ long. Vangie and I are very excited. We weren’t excited, however, that we weren’t able to take the baby the day she was born. They required the birth-mother (Vangie’s Brother’s Wife — sister in law) to stay the night at the hospital along with the baby. We were slightly dissapointed, but we were able to sleep for one more night….
Then, the next day, we were even more upset because the birth mother (Annie) was able to go home, but they said the baby needed to stay overnight for observation for possible Blood type O/A/B incompatability. I asked for an explanation and they just gave me a dumb-look. They explained, then, that there might be an incompatibility between the mother and the baby because the mother’s blood is type O and the baby’s blood is type B and that it causes jaundice (yellowing of skin) and that the baby needed to stay over night for observation.
Needless to say, I was NOT happy about this AT ALL. Don’t get me wrong, if the baby needs to stay over night because there is a problem, fine, I have no issue with that. But when there is NO information given and NO explanation just an assumption of “we’re right, you’re stupid,” I don’t play that game.
There wasn’t really anything we could do, we’re not the birth-parents. That night, Vangie and I went to an internet cafe and looked up the information about the supposed problem and it made perfect sense at that point. I was no longer mad — just mad that I had to go and find the information myself rather than receive an explanation from the Dr. The Drs in the Philippines, based on my experience, really assume that their patients are stupid, pretty pathetic.
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